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Spiritual Sex

by robert cinque

Spiritual Sex is Heartfelt Love/Intimacy with That Which Is Alive as all things. In my opinion, it is the only True Religion. Real Religion is about Truth and Truth is Love, so Religion is about Love. Real Love. Passionate Love. Infinite Love. Finite Love. Exciting Love.

Many people think that Religion is about belief in God. However, Religion has actually nothing to do with belief. Belief could be considered the childhood of Authentic Adulthood in which Reality is Realized as Itself, not merely believed in. Belief could be compared to a menu that has pictures of Food in it. Or a map of a Territory. Menus and maps are useful, but you can’t eat them or live in them.

Belief could also be compared to clothing. Do you keep your clothes on when you are in bed with your lover? Do you bring textbooks to bed? Isn’t it love and passion that brings you to your bed? What do you need clothes and books for when you make love? You don’t need beliefs in order to love.

Love/Intimacy isn’t really the right word. It implies a relationship between an individual and a God when in fact, there is actually Only One Divine Radiant Reality, the Living Field of the Heart. If there is any relationship going on, its between God and God, between the River and the Whirlpool.  The River doesn’t have a “relationship” with the Whirlpool. The Whirlpool is an Attribute of the River, a pattern within it.

‘My Father is a Movement and a Rest”

Jesus, Gospel of Thomas

A Movement and a Rest is a Pulse and a Pause, a Heartbeat. A Sine Wave. A Flash in the Darkness.

The point I am making is that the body/mind we call you is 100% dependent on the Field of Light in Which it is occurring. It is a Pattern, a Symphony of Light, a Song, a Story, an Event.

Appearing as a Human Being is a Spectacular and Sacred Event. When I see people cramming their Exquisite Beauty into trashcans and dungeons of belief, I am horrified to death and I fall apart in grief. It is so shocking and so terrible, I cannot bear it. I weep for everyone who does this to themselves.

I want you to take your clothes off and get into Bed with the Great Lover. Let yourself be Kissed and Fucked Hard until you Scream.

I call this Spiritual Sex. Sex between Whole and Part. Heartfelt/Love Communion between the Eternal and the Mortal.

Anything less than this is utter torture for me and I become inconsolable in my grief at the loss of my Lover. What did I do to obscure Her? I quickly find out and remove the obstacle. Now, it’s Bedtime again.


If it’s not Yum, then there is something in the way. Some thought, some belief, some inherited, uninspected belief or cultural paradigm you swallowed.

In my observation, it seems to me that Life brings calamity to people who are choking themselves to death with false beliefs. The calamity shows up in the same desperate way you tackle and manhandle someone who is stepping in front of a bus in order to save his life. You grabbed his tie and dragged him out of the way. It hurt him, he was bruised by what you did. But, you saved his life.

That’s what I am trying to do with everyone, by pointing to the Truth of our Actual Condition, our Actual Situation in the Glorious and Wonderful Ocean of Light and Love.

Repent from your bullshit ideas and beliefs that are strangling you. Stop desecrating the Enormously Beautiful Realm that we are all experiencing right now. Build your life and your world on the basis of this Realization and restore the Kingdom of Yum.   

The reason the world is in such terrible shape is because we have ignored and betrayed the Truth of Beauty and the Beauty of Truth.

Truth/Beauty/Love/Happiness/Freedom/Intelligence is the Nature of Reality. Just because It’s been buried under mountains and centuries of the rubble of terrible, ugly beliefs doesn’t mean it doesn’t Exist.

It does Exist and we must Dig it Up.

Robert Cinque

In addition to writing essays like these, Robert Cinque also builds beautiful, affordable and comfortable yurts for homeowners and businesses in the fabulous Skagit County. Throughout the past three decades, his work has included building and installing wood art at local landmarks like the Cascadian Farm Organic Fruitstand in Rockport (WA), the Birdsview Brewery at the foot at “the American Alps” in the Pacific Northwest’s Skagit Valley, and many others. He has worked with visionary architect and organic designer Sunray Kelley for over 20 years on many beautiful projects. Together, they formed Radiant Homes and are actively engaged in the development of the Living Home, the Bioshelter, the no-mortgage, no-permit, food and energy producing home. Their work has been featured on National Geographic, MTV, Better Homes and Gardens, and represents the Greening of Architecture, a movement they consider to be the most important development since the Industrial Revolution. He says: These essays are about “dungeons of mind, the root of suffering, true sanctuary, and the glorious imperative to live intimately with That Which Is Alive As All Things. They are painful, bloody and hard-hitting (the “truth will set you free, but it will piss you off first”). They are designed to destroy what’s false and cultivate what’s real. They are not merely my opinions or philosophy; they are field reports from the underground where the Lie was deconstructed. They are wrecking balls, cosmic insults to vanity and arrogance, bulldozers and firebombs that burn out the tangled underbrush. They are intended to water the Seeds of Life buried under mountains and centuries of false beliefs, inherited “culture” and ego cults, so-called “religions”, including scientism, masquerading as truth. Idols are routinely lampooned and sacred cows are turned into hamburger as quickly as possible. I really don’t mean to offend any one personally. I’m not after them. I’m after the beliefs that are harming them: the Big Lie, the belief in separation from Love and Truth that strangles the heart and creates terrible, unbearable suffering. I love to help create Sanctuary and Shelter. I am a green builder and enjoy showing others how to build a no-mortgage, no-permit bio-shelters that also provide food and energy. cell 360-393-5663

3 thoughts on “Spiritual Sex

  • markfarrar

    oh no , king Bobs been out on his own in the woods too long…
    nurse ! pop some bromide in his tea and get him his Plank mag.
    to look at . he troubles too much about all those who choose belief .
    they just aren’t ready yet , no big deal , the recycling system is still set to
    unlimited plays right now . anyway , I will be in my sandbox , all on my lonesome ,
    digging up my reality stash to play with and building the kingdom of yum out of sand …..


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